I was actually thinking about other matters when the thought occurred to me, but:
It's not that I like to argue, it's that I like to figure out where people are really at. It's why I generally loathe tissue tigers and devil's advocates, because I don't argue for the sport, I argue for the sincere desire of knowing someone else's position, and understanding it as viscerally as possible.
So, really, when I argue with you, I want you to convince me, as sincerely as possible (the pretty bow), why it is that you feel the way you do. I am all the more ready, then, to agree, or to agree to disagree. I don't want Debate Club, I want tiny pieces of people's souls.
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Date: 2002-10-15 01:14 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2002-10-15 02:05 pm (UTC)I was actually thinking about other matters when the thought occurred to me, but:
It's not that I like to argue, it's that I like to figure out where people are really at. It's why I generally loathe tissue tigers and devil's advocates, because I don't argue for the sport, I argue for the sincere desire of knowing someone else's position, and understanding it as viscerally as possible.
So, really, when I argue with you, I want you to convince me, as sincerely as possible (the pretty bow), why it is that you feel the way you do. I am all the more ready, then, to agree, or to agree to disagree. I don't want Debate Club, I want tiny pieces of people's souls.
I'm harmless, really.
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Date: 2002-10-15 04:39 pm (UTC)kidding, natch.